Monday, December 9, 2019

Six Frames by Edward De Bono

Six Frames by Edward De Bono
























Six Frames by Edward de Bono

Six Frames for thinking about information -- by Edward de Bono

-- Attention is key to thinking
-- Weakness is that attention is pulled (eg. you pay attention to someone rolling on the floor)
-- Perception we have dictates our thinking and so if we do not pay attention to our perception we might end up with wrong conclusions

---> We need to direct attention, using a framework

The 6 frames are:

Triangle frame
-- purpose (why the info? what info? where to seek the info?)

Circle frame
-- accuracy (attention to accuracy of info; checking on the accuracy; use with care if doubtful)

Square frame
-- point of view (attention on the degree of bias of info)

Heart frame
-- interest (attention to the matters of interest; how interesting is the info to us?)

Diamond frame
-- value (attention to the value of the info; use the 6 value medals*)

Slap frame
-- outcome (attention to the outcome of analyzing the info; agree or disagree? next step?)

* summary of Six Medals by Edward de Bono

Gold medal -- human value
Silver medal -- organization value (eg. company, family)
Steel medal -- quality value
Glass medal -- innovation value
Wood medal -- value to the World (eg. environment)
Brass -- perception value

Win Bigly by Scott Adams

Win Bigly by Scott Adams


persuasion tips

  1. When you identify as part of a group, your opinions tend to be biased toward the group consensus
  2. Humans are hardwired to reciprocate favours. If you want someone's cooperation in the future, do something for that person today
  3. Persuasion is effective even when the subject recognises the technique.
  4. The thing that you think about the most will irrationally rise in the importance in your mind
  5. An intentional "error" in the details of your message will attract criticism. The attention will make your message rise in importance — at least in people's minds — simply because everyone is talking about it
  6. Display confidence (real or fake) to improve your persuasiveness.
  7. If you want the audience to embrace your content, leave out any detail that is both unimportant and would give people a reason to think, "That's not me!" (eg, in Dilbert cartoon, Dilbert has no last name, his boss has no name, company has no name, address, and you don't know what industry the company is in)


Cognitive dissonance — mental stress experienced by an individual who holds 2 or more contradictory beliefs; performs an action that is contradictory to his beliefs; or confronted by information that conflicts with his existing beliefs

Cognitive dissonance is invisible to the person experiencing it

Analogy — don't need it if you have facts. so if someone needs to use analogy to persuade the case, he does not have enough facts

Attacking the messenger — that is when the other party sensed he is losing an argument and so resort to attacking the barrier of facts

The psychic psychiatrist illusion — if you start imagining you can discern the inner thinking of the other party and thus able to detect secret motives etc, then you are definitely pushing your argument without real facts






Scandinavian Trip (16-28 Jun 2019)

Scandinavian Trip (16-28 Jun 2019)

16 Jun, Sun
Turkish Airlines 55
depart Singapore 23:25 Terminal 1

17 Jun, Mon
5:25 Istanbul 7:30 Turkish Airlines 1783
Arrive Copenhagen 9:45am, Terminal 2
🚃 shuttle bus to Terminal 3 to take train to Copenhagen central station (15min)
check in/drop bags @ hotel

(1)Walked to Town hall
(2)From there to Ved Stranden to take the Grand canal tour (among many interesting places, also saw Little Mermaid from the back
(3)Had lunch at Cafe Norden, Super yummy and full
(4)Walked part of Stroget shopping street
(5)Christianborg Palace
(6)Back to town hall to take the Copenhagen Train tour

stay@Grand Hotel, Copenhagen

COPENHAGEN FOOD
- Apparently red sausage hotdog, Polse is a thing (Polse Kompagniet or Den økologiske pølsemand DOP)
- Smorrebrod (it's an open sandwich kind of thing) – Aamanns Etablissement (Mich star) or Royal Smushi Café or Peder Ox but apparently everywhere has this
- Shawarma!!! street food kinda thing
- Falafel!!!
- Try their roast pork, fishcakes and meatballs!
- Host – Nordic food restaurant which is apparently good
- other random restaurants: Uformel, 2
- Grod (basically porridge but can like eat for breakfast?)

DESSERTS
- Raspberry bars (Meyers Bageri or Lauras Bakery)
- and ofc all the other bakery foods :>

18 Jun, Tue

(1)Nyhaven
(2)Amalienborg Palace
(3)Torvehallerne food street
(4)National gallery
(5)Round Tower
(6)Walked the whole of Str
Back to hotel to rest
(7)Tivoli gardens after 9:00pm

stay@Grand Hotel, Copenhagen

19 Jun, Wed

(1)National Museum

14:00 — from Hotel to DFDS by Bus #26 (30 Mins)
⛴Copenhagen to Oslo by Ferry
16:30 — departure DFDS Terminal, Crown Seaways
On Ferry
Deck 5, Room 5432

stay on Ferry

20 Jun, Thur

9:45 Arrive Oslo
10:45 Info Centre
11:20 To hotel to drop off luggages

(1)walked along Akerselva river
  • graffiti art
(2)Mathallen street food court
(3)Munch Museum
(4)Oslo opera house

stay@Anker Hotel, Oslo

21 Jun, Fri

(1)Tram and Ferry to Bygdøy
(2)Norwegian Folk Museum
(3)Viking ship museum
(4)City hall area
(5)Akershus castle and Fortress
(6)Ferry to Bygdøy again and back to City Hall
(7)Aker Brygge

stay@Anker Hotel, Oslo

22 Jun, Sat

Check out @ 10:00

(1)Royal Palace
(2)Nobel Peace Center
(3)Astrup Fearnley Museum of Modern Art
(4)Watched Oslo Pride parade

🚃 Oslo to Stockholm
5 hr 50 mins
16:56 Oslo S — Stockholm Central 22:47
💤 😴

stay@Queen's Hotel, Stockholm

23 Jun, Sun

(1) walked down Drottninggatan to Old town (Gamla stan)
(2) royal palace
(3) 24 hr Hop on-off boat
(4) Lunch @ Grill Ruby (meatballs and sausage)
(5) more rides on hop on-off boat

stay@Queen's Hotel, Stockholm

24 Jun, Mon

(1) stroll down the Drottninggatan to take the boat
(2) nice ride around
(3) stroll around and watched a free concert by Chicago Consort at the Kungsträdgården
(4) out of Queen's and move to Radisson
(5) check into Radisson
(6) walked to Solna to check out the big mall and bought dinner

stay@Radisson Blu Royal Park Hotel

25 Jun, Tue

(1) Hiking around lake (9:30-16:30)

stay@Radisson Blu Royal Park Hotel

26 Jun, Wed

drizzling morning
check out of Radisson Blu

12:19 Stockholm Sodra — Copenhagen Central 17:31
🚃Stockholm to Copenhagen
5hr 15 mins

check into the Square
(1) stroll from hotel to Nyhavn
(2) dinner @ Nyhavnscafeen
(3) ice cream @ Vafflebageren

stay@The Square, Copenhagen
Rådhuspladsen 14, Copenhagen

27 Jun, Thur

(1)city roaming and shopping
(2)check out of the Square

16:00 Depart for airport
🚃 Central to airport (20 mins)

depart Copenhagen 18:30 Terminal 2
Turkish Airlines 1786

22:50 Istanbul

28 Jun, Fri

Istanbul 2:00 Turkish Airlines 54
arrive Singapore 17:50, Terminal 1


————————————————————————
Expenses:

Air tickets plus insurance — S$3029.70
Itinerary # 7429882098001

Grand Hotel, Copenhagen (2 nights)— S$697.833

Ferry (overnight + dinner) — S$473

Anker Hotel, Oslo (bf) (2 nights)— S$515.84

Queen's Hotel, Stockholm (bf) (2 nights)— S$389.67

Radisson Blu Royal Park Hotel, Stockholm (bf) (2 nights)— S$371.97

The Square, Copenhagen (1 night) — S$386.22

Train tickets (Oslo-Stockholm, Stockholm-Copenhagen) — S$615

Copenhagen Card x 3 (2-day) — €240 (S$367.66)

Oslo Pass x 3 (2-day) — S$313.7

Stockholm hop on-off boat — S$100
Stockholm bus/train — S$36.50
To Copenhagen airport — S$22.30

M1 — S$50

food plus spending
=1681.08 (you trip plus cash)


Cash (S$822)
DKK — S$330
NKK — S$255
SKR — S$237

M1 passport:
Turkey - Vodafone
Denmark - Telenor
Norway - Telenor
Sweden - Telenor


grand total = S$9050.473

Seoul trip (19-28 Nov 2019)

Seoul trip (19-28 Nov 2019)

18 Nov, Mon

22:00 To changi airport

19 Nov, Tue
SQ608, QUEWQ7

00:10 — 07:35

08:48 AREX airport to Seoul

10:00 left bags at Hotel

Michelin dumpling brunch

walk walk shop shop in Myeongdong

check into hotel

much needed rest

Chicken and beer dinner


MDSP1

20 Nov, Wed

Brunch at Mukshidona army stew
@Samcheondon

Yummy cake @ Samcheondon

Street food dinner

MDSP1

21 Nov, Thur

travel to Chuncheon

Myeong Dong to Chuncheon
myeong dong - Line 4 - 3 stops - Dongdaemun - change to Line 1 - 5 stops - Hoegi - change to GJ line - 2 stops to Sanbong - change to Gyeongchun line - 20 stops - Chuncheon

To Soyang Dam
From Chuncheon Station, take bus 12 to Soyang Dam

take ferry to see temple

back to Chuncheon

check into hotel

Chuncheon street
and DakGalbi

Veneziasuite
136 Hyoja-ro, Hyoja-dong Chuncheon-si

22 Nov, Fri

Hôtel to Gapyeong
hôtel to Chuncheon station by taxi - chuncheon station to Gapyeong station by G line

taxi to Nami island ferry point

Nami island

travel back to Seoul

Gapyeong station - Geongchun line - sangbong — GJ line — Hoeji — line 1 — Dondaemon — line 4 — Myeongdong

check into hotel

Lunchinner @ Yoganne

walked to Namdaemun to buy contact lens

back to hotel

MDSP1

23 Nov, Sat

late start
breakfast of kimbab and fake Issac toast

Line 2 to Ehwa Women Uni for shopping
Walked to 八色烤肉 for late lunch
super nice
taxi to Hongik Uni.
some shopping and watch street performances — it is so so crowded

back to hotel

MDSP1

24 Nov, Sun

breakfast at famous porridge place . yum. lots of Japanese.

mom and daughter shopping venture while dad stays in hotel room to rest

meet for Tonkatsu lunch. good.

more shopping

and then tea at Oscilluc

bought dumplings back for dinner

MDSP1

25 Nov, Mon

Dongdaemun walk about

tried but failed to find pork belly lunch place but found a really good chicken soup place for lunch

RBW lounge for tea - Mamamoo agent

back to Myeongdong and bought street food for dinner

MDSP1

26 Nov, Tue

Gangnam day!

Took line 2 to Seolleung to visit the Royal tombs of the Joseon dynasty. Tomb of King Seongjong and Queen Jeonghyeon (Seolleung) and King Jungjong (Jeongneung). Nice walk and serene atmosphere in the park.

Walked to COEX. Interesting library in Starfield mall. Super huge mall complex.... Super yummy beef rice soup at 河東馆 at Starfield mall.

Stroll along Garosu-Gil @ Sinsa. Shops along both sides of road. Head tea at Alley cafe.

Back to Myeongdong. Amelie bought her Mamamoo DVD and got additional poster! Bumped into Huai En at underground shopping street! Packed Yoogane fried rice and others for dinner.

MDSP1

27 Nov, Wed

Namdaemun shopping

lunch at Myeongdong dumplings again!!

more shopping before going to 20 Steps (CUBE entertainment) for tea

back to Myeongdong for more shopping before packing Oppadac and yoogane fried rice for dinner at hotel

MDSP1

28 Nov, Thur

packing and last minute shopping?

11:40 check out hotel

12:50 AREX from Seoul stn

SQ609
16:35 — 22:20



Expenditure:
SQ booking reference: QUEWQ7
S$2,508.60✅
Grab to Changi - S$10✅
Travel insurance — S$84.70✅
T money topped up - Won 80,000 (cash)✅S$93


Dumpling lunch 19/11 - Won 28,000 (cash)✅S$32.5
Street food 20/11 (cash)- Won 50,000✅S$60
Porridge 28/11 (cash)- Won 29,000 ✅S$33.5

Youtrip card:
AREX (airport to Seoul) — S$19.65✅
Kanu coffee - S$27.42✅
Fried chicken and beer dinner 19/11 - S$56.11✅
Mukshidona lunch 20/11 - S$29.26✅
dessert 19/11 - S$40.96✅
Ferry tickets - S$21.00✅
Lunch@Soyang Dam 21/11- S$43.16✅
Chicken galbi dinner 21/11 - S$46.66✅
tickets to Nami -S$41.98✅
yoganne lunch 22/11 - S$26.82✅
八色grill pork lunch 23/11 - S$57.03✅
porridge breakfast 24/11 - S$32.46✅
Tonkatsu lunch 24/11 - S$48.68✅
Oscilluc teatime 24/11 - S$25.85✅
Chicken soup lunch 25/11 - S$27.82✅
Shake burger 25/11 - S$8✅
RBW lounge 25/11 - S$9.85✅
Beef rice soup lunch 26/11 - S$69.55✅
Bubble tea @ Alley 26/11 - S$12.87✅
Yoogane fried rice 26/11 - S$6.95✅
Dumplings lunch 27/11 - S$33.71✅
tea @ 20 Space 27/11 - S$10.46✅
Oppadak and Yoogane dinner 27/11 - S$29.00✅
miscellaneous— S$125✅
AREX (to airport) - S$19.61✅

Hotels:
19-21 Nov @ Myeongdong Skypark I — $271.96✅
21-22 Nov @ VeneziaSuite — S$93.10✅
22-28 Nov @ Myongdong Skypark I — S$1,080.19✅

Arex counter
Incheon International Airport Terminal 1
Information Center, B1 Floor, Transportation Center of Incheon Int'l Airport Opening hours: 5:10am-10:40pm, daily


Transport:
S$2838.56
Hotels:
S$1445.25
Food:
853.7
——————
S$5117.51

Monday, October 10, 2016

Pre-suasion by Robert Caldini

Pre-suasion by Robert Caldini


The basic idea of pre-suasion is that by guiding preliminary attention strategically, its possible for a communicator to move recipients into agreement with a message before they experience it. 


The KEY is to focus them initially on concepts that are aligned associatively with the yet-to-be-encountered information.



  1. THE FRONTLOADING OF ATTENTION


A. Privileged moment --

The factor most likely to determine a person's choice in a situation is often not the one that offers the most accurate or useful counsel; instead, it is the one that has been elevated in attention at the moment of decision.


~ positive test strategy - for most people, when deciding whether a possibility is correct, they look for hits (for confirmation) rather than misses (for disconfirmation)


~ channeling - linking people you want to convince to something deemed positive or good or attractive and then uses that "chute" to send the person down the path you want him to take


~ leaning in - people are know to lean nearer to something when they are interested .... but getting people to lean nearer (or something similar like straightening up) will get them interested 



B. The importance of Attention --

The human tendency to assign UNDUE levels of importance to an idea as soon as one's attention is turned to it.  


~ what's salient is important - anything that draws focused attention to itself can lead observers to overestimate its importance <---> Nothing in life is as important as you think it is while you are thinking about it


~ managing the background - seemingly dismissible information presented in the background captures a valuable kind of attention that allows for potent, almost entirely uncounted instances of influence.


~ inviting favourable evaluation - by asking someone to look into the positives of, say, a product will enhanced the likelihood that the product will be chosen by that someone (this method could back fire if the product in question has too many negatives)


~ shifting the task at hand - bringing attention away from an undesirable issue and to refocus the attention to somewhere that is easy to control 



C. What's focal is CAUSAL --

If people see themselves giving special attention to some factor, they become more likely to think of it as a cause.


In other words, what's salient is deemed important and what's focal is deemed causal.


~ taking a chance - lot numbers of drugs that caused death were seen as more likely to be the winning numbers of lotteries 


~ taking a life - the point of view is crucial => whoever's face was more visible was judged to be more causal



D. The Attractors --

Natural occurring commanders of attention : the sexual, the threatening, and the different.


~ while these are compelling stimuli, they are not simple  or unitary in their effects. Need to understand whether it is to appeal to "don't be left out" or "stand out in crowd" mentality --> eg. romance => uniqueness; fear => safety in crowd


~ investigatory reflex - in order to survive, any animal needs to be acutely aware of immediate changes to its environment, investigating and evaluating these differences for the dangers or opportunities they might present. so forceful is this reflex that it supersedes all other operations.



E. The Magnetizers -- 

There is considerable benefit to holding the attention of the audience to a particular stimulus as it raises the chance that the argument will go unchallenged => one effective way of competing is not giving the competitors air time.


~ self relevant - people are attracted by information or situation about themselves and therefore will pay lots of attention to them and blank out the surroundings => next-in-line effect - people tends not able to focus on things happen right before snd right after their turn to speak (lack of holding power due to distraction)


~ unfinished - not completing an activity can make everything about it more memorable (referred to as Zeigarnik effect) ==> not allowing yourself to finish a task at its logical end (ie, leaving behind unfinished part even when you know exactly what to do) will hold your attention to the task and allow you to continue your project easily as you will be able to easily restart working by first completing the unfinished task you purposely left behind 


~ mysterious - nothing can keep attention more than a mystery. the need to know the answer, the result, the reason will keep the audience's attention. how to do It? => (a) pose the mystery  (b) deepen the mystery (c) home in on proper explanation by considering alternate explanations (d) provide a clue to the proper explanation (e) resolve the mystery (f) draw the implication for the phenomenon under study


  1. THE ROLE OF ASSOCIATION 


F. The primacy of associations --

I link, therefore I think.  The concept selected as target of attention should ideally triggers responses favouring the desired change(s).


~ thinking is linking - associations are the building blocks of thought


~ purpose of speech - direct listeners' attention to a selected sector of reality and once that is accomplished, the listeners' existing associations to the now spot-lighted sector will take over to determine the reaction.


~ speak no evil, leak no evil - "he who wants to persuade should put his trust not in the right argument, but in the right word" - Joseph Conrad


~  metaphor is a meta-door (to change) - "if you want to change the world, change the metaphor" - Joseph Campbell 

eg, crime is like a beast => cage => jail as a solution 

vs crime is like a virus => unhygienic environment => removing unhealthy environment as a solution


~ negative associations can be transferred as easily as positive ones so watch out for it.


~ common things are great links - birth dates, first name, sports, language


~ make it rhyme and safe time - make it easy for others to remember so that it seems more "persuasive". easier to pronounce, easier to recognise, easier to .... => appeal to the naturally lazy brains


G. Persuasive geographies --

All the right places, all the right traces. The right environment or stimulus will trigger the right responses.


~ create your own inner geography - count your blessings at start of day, cultivate optimism, negate time spent dwelling into negatives => pre-suade yourself into happiness


~ watch out for what's already in you - being reminded of gender/ethnicity/height etc can improve or inhibit performance by setting up a pre-test inner geography


~ right environment for the right result - do not underestimate how the environment you are in (eg facing of table, amount of light) can affect results of your work (孟母三迁)



H. The mechanics of pre-suasion --

Set up and get the audience readied. So that they will be in the "pre-suaded" state and will be ready to be persuaded.


~ how far? - closer association will lead to higher pre-suasiveness.


~ how manufacturable? - an effective linkage can be constructed (Pavlov's dogs - there was no natural linkage between sound of bell and food).


~ if/when-then plans - make plans and draw up scenarios to get yourself readied for potential derailment that distract us from our purpose => going to a supermarket with the objective to buy healthy, nutritious and inexpensive food will neutralise the draw of heavily advertised, attractively packaged easy-to-reach items


~ correction: minding the gap - often times, simply recognising the undesired influences will be enough to block their effects. => "Let me ask you a question, for your information". => by asking about the weather, it will eliminate the "weather-induced" bias the respondent might have.=> more people remember products when their placements in TV shows are more prominent (especially prominent both visually and audibly) but these people do not favour these products when they shop => the "plot" was too obvious that the audience refuses to fall for it


~ gapping the mind - compared to natural psychological responses (NPR), decisions made based on extensive analysis require time, capacity and lots of will power. => when we are tired, rushed, stressed, lazy, overloaded with information, etc, we tend to take short-cut (NPR) to make decision 


  1. THE OPTIMIZATION OF PRE-SUASION


I. Six main roads to change --

Attention should be channeled to one of the following universal principles of influence : reciprocity, liking, authority, social proof, scarcity, and consistency.


~ reciprocity - meaningful, unexpected, customised gifts increase reciprocity rates


~ liking - highlighting similarities and providing compliments increase liking => respondents feel the "care" through these


~ social proof - validity and feasibility are at play when it comes to social proof => people must think that what they are about to do is "correct" as seen by others (validity) and doable as others have done the same (feasibility)


~ authority - the merit is the message -> the medium (through the message is disseminated) is the message -> the messenger (the sender) is the message. The quality of the messenger lies in his expertise and trustworthiness. => expertise -> brain scanning showed that areas of brains associated with evaluation did not light up when subjects were listening to advice from experts (not thinking). trustworthiness-> acknowledge a drawback before highlighting strengths often see increase in trustworthiness.


~ scarcity - any constraint on access increased the worth of what was being offered


~ consistency - normally we want to be (and to be seen) consistent with our existing commitments. so, if communicator can get us to take a pre-suasive step, even a small one, in the direction towards a particular idea, they might be able to increase our willingness to take a larger, congruent step towards that idea.


~ 3 stage approach - first stage involves cultivating positive associations (reciprocity and liking); second stage is to reduce uncertainty (social proof and authority); and final stage pushes for action (scarcity and consistency)


J. Being together --

The 7th universal principle of influence is Unity : the WE relationship. The audience identifies with the speaker.


Our ability to create change in others is often and importantly grounded in shared personal relationships, which create a pre-suasive context for assent. 


~ unity - the relationships that lead people to favour another most effectively are not those that allow them to say, "oh that person is like us"; they are the ones that allow people to say, "oh that person is OF us".


~ kinship - treated like a family member, the respondents will be more likely to be persuaded.

 

~ place - from home to immediate neighbours (locals) to region. sharing the same space leads to "togetherness" (and to influence) 


K. Acting together --

Beyond identifying with the speaker through, for example, common beliefs, the Unity factor gets intensified when the WE relationship is derived from audience and speaker acting together synchronously or collaboratively.


~ groups can promote unity, liking and subsequent supportive behaviour by first arranging for synchronous responding (eg, tapping of table while listening to same music) => music and dancing 



L. Ethical use --

Unethical use of the pre-suasion technique eventually will render the exercise ineffective.


M. Post-suasion -- 

How to make changes stick?


~ installing strong commitment - additional step to get respondents to register the temporary bias feeling (due to pre-suasion) will act to create a lasting bias feeling (french music causing positive view on a painting => rating the painting there and then will result in respondents liking the painting longer)


~ cueing up the cues - putting up reminders (eg posters) to remind yourself of the change you want to make; setting up what-if scenarios so that you know exactly how to react in the way consistent to your intended change. Reminders elevate a particular  issue to the top of list so that it will grab respondents' attention 



Conclusion



In large measure, who we are with respect to any choice is where we are, attentively, in the moment before the choice. We can be channeled to that privileged moment by (choice-relevant) cues we haphazardly bump into in our daily settings, or, of greater concern, by the cues a knowing communicator has tactically placed there; or, to much better and lasting effect, by the cues we have stored in these recurring sites to send us consistently in desired directions. In each case, the made moment is pre-suasive.




HCM notes:


  1. Always invert when analysing 
  2. Allow inconsistency to your responses to situation (case by case approach)